It doesn't need to make sense, it only needs to feel right

Only you know what's best for you

Dreams come true

If you're willing to work on yourself and make some changes

Dreams are meant to be lived...

...and we've come a long way to actually "get there".

Some of the first steps of our journey together as a couple:

How it all started

It's a match

An app to find our dream partner

Both new to online dating, but willing to get out of our comfort zone.

The Tinder match quickly turned into a love story, when TJ took a chance and booked a flight from Mallorca to Ibiza to meet Esther.

Things got serious very quickly

Dating between 2 islands

TJ on Mallorca and Esther on Ibiza

After 4 months of dating and a trip to meet the family, we decided to move in together.

TJ quit his career in the Luxury Yachting Industry and moved in with Esther on Ibiza.

Time for a new adventure

Our first move together

From Ibiza to The Netherlands

The summer of 2017 we got to work together for the first time, creating and executing events & incentives on Ibiza.

And we felt we wanted to take that on the road, so we decided to pack up all our stuff and move to The Netherlands.

Getting our dreams aligned

Going within

Our spiritual journey together

After months of trying to find our groove in The Netherlands, we came to the conclusion we needed to first reset ourselves.

The dream was to start a family together, but we first needed to align what we wanted that to look like exactly.

Our dream to create a family together

Both TJ and Esther dreamt of creating a family one day...

But how do you do that?

How do you come together as a couple?

How do you align yourself with another person you love?

And what happens when your child is born and all of a sudden you become parents?

We've shared bits and pieces of our journey in becoming a family via our diary.

Becoming a family

My own digital detox program for our family

My own digital detox program for our family

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Turns out I can NOT do it all…

Turns out I can NOT do it all…

Well, not at the same time at least! These past few days have been a serious challenge in accepting my own truth… One that was shared by my 6 year...

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